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3/04/2016

Travel Diary - Yucatán Peninsula Part 2: Mérida

The next stop on our Mexican road trip was Mérida (catch our first stop here). On our way into town, we stopped at the most famous Mayan ruin in the Yucatán, Chichen Itza.

Named one of the new seven wonders of the world, the scale of the ruins is quite impressive, but both B and I preferred the quieter and more intimate Ek' Balam. Showing up at Chichen Itza was a little bit like showing up at Disney Land. Tour buses crowded the parking lot and vendors lined the walkways of the ruins - and we beat the rush by showing up at 8:30am. Still worth the visit - especially since it was on our way to Mérida - just be prepared for a crowd.

The actual city of Mérida was a dream. A colorful city, full of historic architecture and culture. Great food, great music, great streets for strolling. We only spent a couple days here and didn't have any set agenda, but thoroughly enjoyed wandering to discover the city's gems.

Where to Stay:
- Rosas y Xocolate was one of my favorite hotels I've stayed in. Aside from the fact that everything is pink and they specialize in chocolate, the best part of the hotel was the private outdoor bathtubs so you can bathe under the stars.

Where to Eat:
- Rosas y Xocolate was rated one of the best restaurants in the city and lucky for us, was steps away from our room. For a more romantic setting, request a table in the courtyard. To be where all the action is, sit out on the patio over looking the street.
- I honestly don't remember the names of the other places we ate - we tend to just stumble to places that look good and usually get pretty lucky. We really didn't have a bad culinary experience in Mérida.
- Wherever you end up eating, try the cochinita pibil (slow marinated pork), the local dish of the Yucatán. It comes in all sorts of varieties and is always made a little differently, but I am still craving the cochinita pibil tacos.

What to Do:
- Plan to be in town on a Sunday. The city shuts down several of the streets surrounding the main plaza and fills the square with street vendors and live music for one big party.
- Check out Chichen Itza or some of the other lesser known Mayan ruins in the area. There are quite a few.
- Skip the taxi and grab a horse and buggy to transport you around town.
- If horses aren't your thing, rent a bike. And if you like your biking to be a community experience, join in for La Bici Ruta, the Sunday ritual where several of the main streets close down and bikers gather for a slow roll style stroll.
- If you want to take a day trip for some non-resort beach towns, it's only about a 30 minute ride to the coast.

What Not to Do:
- Rent a Camaro convertible. Sounds lovely in theory, but the chances of you being confused for drug dealers and pulled over at a police check point and asked to exit your car while 4 officers with rifles thoroughly search your entire car and all your belongings is high.

Tips:
- See above's "What not to Do."

3/01/2016

Travel Diary - Yucatán Peninsula Part 1: Valladolid

Recently B and I took a 10 day vacation where we roadtripped around the Yucatán Peninsula. When it comes to vacations, I'm a type A planner and B likes to show up and see what happens. To me, planning the trip intensifies my excitement, giving me something to look forward to in the weeks leading up to the vacation. For him, it's a bundle of over planning stress. In order to satisfy both our needs, B gave me full reign of the entire vacation planning, meaning he had no idea where we were going or what we were doing until we showed up at the airport.

For this trip, I wanted a mix of adventure and relaxation and I wanted to stay under our agreed upon budget. After researching several other locations, I ultimately landed on a road trip through the Yucatan for a perfect mix of unknown adventure, history, culture, and beaches. After a one night stay in Cancun, we headed to Valladolid. Lots of people love Cancun. I am not one of those people. So we chose to stay near the airport and on the beach at the Westin. We had a great room that walked out to the ocean and were able to avoid the craziness of the downtown center. We are not typically resort people (often preferring off the beaten path locations and accommodations), but after a day of traveling it was really nice to enjoy a bit of luxury at the Westin.

After a good night's rest, we got up and began our road trip, heading to Valladolid. I knew very little about this town, beside it being close to several of the ruins and cenotes. There's not a ton to do in this historic town, but it's a great central location to explore the surrounding attractions. We also enjoyed a lazy afternoon stumbling upon the town's cenote (cenote Zaci - literally in the middle of town) and searching for the perfect tacos.

Headed to Valladolid? Here are my recommendations and tips:

Where to Stay:
- El Mason de Marques is where we stayed and had a great experience. It's right in the middle of town, which is great starting off point for exploring.
- Hotel Zentik Project is where I originally planned to stay. It is outside of town (so having a car would be helpful if you stay there), but the place looks amazing and sits on top of an underground pool cave.

Where to Eat:

- We had an amazing dinner in the outdoor courtyard of our hotel, El Mason de Marques. The food is great and the atmosphere is romantic.

- La Cantina is a great little casual restaurant on the plaza. Perfect for afternoon tacos and beers.

- Conato 1910 is an Italian/Mexican fusion restaurant with lots of vegetarian and vegan options. The place doesn't look like much, but the food was fantastic.

What to Do:
- Check out the Mayan ruins. Ek' Balam was appealing because it's one of the few ruins you can climb on and really explore. It also is less known and had very few tourists (compared to other ruins which were overrun with tour buses full of people. More on that in the next post.).
- Swim in the cenotes. These underground caves are amazing. Go early when no one else is there so you have the place to yourself. We went to the cenote near Ek' Balam and it was totally abandoned (it's a mile and a half walk to get there which seemed to deter other visitors).
- Take a road trip to the northern coast. See the flamingos in Ria Lagartos. Bring cash! There are no ATMS in town (or anywhere nearby) and the boat rides to the lagoon are cash only. We learned this the hard way and made the drive without enough money to actually see the flamingos. All was not lost though. We had an amazing lunch of fresh seafood overlooking the water at Ria Maya.
- If you go up to the northern coast, head east and check out the salt mines and pink lagoon. It's pretty much in the middle of nowhere, but it's a beautiful drive and seeing the water turn pink from the salt mines is fascinating.

Tips:
- If you rent a beater convertible and the rental company offers to upgrade you for free to a Camaro, politely decline (unless you like lots of attention).
- Keep a bathing suit in your car as you travel around. You never know when you'll stumble upon a cenote and want to take a dip.
- Have cash on hand or research where the ATMS are, which seem to be lacking outside of the main towns throughout the peninsula.
- If roadtripping around, bring a playlist and auxiliary cord for tunes. Definite mood booster on long car rides.
- Show up at the ruins and more popular cenotes early to avoid the crowds. It makes a huge difference in the experience you'll have.

Stay tuned to see where we head to next!

2/10/2016

Off the Grid

It's February in Michigan, which means it's time to escape the cold in search of sunnier places. Tomorrow B and I leave for a much needed vacation. I can't tell you where (B doesn't know!), but I can tell you it will be full of exploration, adventure, and hopefully, sunshine.

In order to really maximize the trip and our time together, I'll be leaving my computer behind but you can follow our journey (wherever it may be) on Instagram.

2/09/2016

Little Black Jumpsuit

When getting dressed, I never want to feel too done up, even when attending a more formal event. So when I was invited to a masquerade fundraiser this weekend, where the dress code was "evening wear with a twist," I immediately knew I wanted to trade in my typical LBD for a jumpsuit. There's just something so effortlessly sexy about a jumpsuit (especially one with a low plunging neckline).

A great alternative to a dress, a jumpsuit provides a similar ease, but definitely amps up the cool quotient. Plus, you have the added benefit of it being a one-and-done outfit. One stand out piece, minimal accessories needed - every lazy girl's dream.

jumpsuit: meghan marion via styleshack

necklace: etsy

shoes: express

clutch: clare v. via willys detroit

2/02/2016

Winter Heat Wave

I know the East Coast is still recovering from winter storm Jonas, but here in Detroit, it's been in the 40s, the sun's been shining, and there hasn't been a flake of snow all week (knock on wood!).

So instead of my usual winter hibernating, I've been enjoying strolls along the Detroit Riverwalk and wearing heels instead of snow boots.

But seeing how it's only February, I'm sure there is many a snow day in our forecast, but in the meantime, I'll be taking advantage of these warmer days - and a temporary break from shapeless outerwear - by wearing light jackets and scarves instead of the usual tent-sized sleeping bag coats.

jacket: zara (similar)

boots: sam edelman

scarf: gap (similar)

bag: tj maxx (similar)

sunglasses: peacock room detroit

1/26/2016

Third Piece Rule

One of the most frequently asked questions I get asked is "how do I take my style from 'basic' to 'bold'?" And while there are a lot of options (like spending an outrageous amount of money on some incredible designer piece), there's a super simple solution that can be found in your closet.

It's called the "Third Piece Rule."

Some of you may be aware of this rule already. Others may follow this rule without actually being aware that you follow it.

And it's as easy as this: If you have on a top (piece one) and bottom (piece two), add a a third piece. That's it. This third piece can be anything from a vest (my personal favorite), to a jacket or sweater, or even accessories like a statement necklace, oversized scarf, or hat.

The addition of a third piece (or even a fourth or fifth piece) helps an outfit pop. It helps give dimension to your look. It adds visual interest. All good things when you are trying to elevate your look.

So next time you're getting dressed and feel like you could use a little extra "style" in your basic outfit, remember the third piece rule.

Utilizing a vest to add impact to an outfit.

A great blazer or jacket can take your outfit up a notch.

Don't forget accessories - even a great statement necklace can elevate your look!

Do you follow the third piece rule?

1/20/2016

On Wednesdays We Wear Pink

Part of the reason I love going back home to Virginia is because my wardrobe triples in size. Between my mom and my sister (who was too preggers to fit into most of her clothes), I get to play dress up in two additional closets. And since I regularly help both of them shop, they obviously have some pretty great pieces in their wardrobes.

Like this hot pink coat.

You may remember this coat from last year - which has been so popular, over a year later and it's still being repinned on Pinterest multiple times a day. To say I love this coat is an understatement. There is just something so joyful about a ridiculously bright coat in the depths of the winter.

And since Detroit is way colder than Virginia and in desperate need of a little brightness, I'm hoping my sister will give in and just give me the coat. After all, I did pick it out.